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5 women and non-binary people on when they feel their sexiest

When do you feel your sexiest? Is it with a red lip, cat-eye flick and big gold hoops? Or is it with your loungewear on and hair up in a bun?

There’s no one formula for feeling like your sauciest self, so alongside Ann Summers, we asked five women and non-binary people to let us know when they feel their most desirable.

1.With wine

Feelingsexy’ is very difficult to explain for me; I’ve spent most of my adult life in a difficult relationship with my body. But the times I’ve felt the best are drinking wine with my boyfriend on our Italian villa’s balcony, planning dinner while laying in each other’s laps or Sunday brunch with the person I love.” – Charlotte, 24, London

2.With the right underwear

“It’s cliché, but I feel my sexiest when my boobs look great. I have an E cup, so frothy bits of lace don’t do it for me. But a balconette push-up bra with lace overlay? Count me in and turn me on. There’s also something about crotchless underwear that really gets me in the mood.” – Manon, 26, Leicester

3.In control

“I feel sexiest when I’m in control of my own body, but also when my body and its power are being respected. First and foremost by myself, but that includes other people too.” – Jamie, 21, London

4.In the moment

“I don’t often think about my body in terms of being sexy or unsexy, other than when I’m in the throes of passion. It’s in those moments that I really feel sexy: powerful, in control and doing something that I know makes me – and someone else – feel good.

“The anticipation of sex makes me feel incredibly sexy, and something about seeing someone run their eyes over your body in appreciation is pretty unbeatable.” – Emily, 23, Colchester

5.In my own skin

“To me, sexy isn’t about dressing up for someone – it’s about feeling calm and comfortable in my own skin. I probably feel sexiest in my high-leg, full coverage underwear and my fluffy dressing gown.” – Jasmin, 26, Epping

Feel like your sexiest self with Ann Summers